I'm a little more liberal with the back and forths. You guys all bring up valid points which is cool. then the reporting started and we found nothing wrong with the posts.
We really don't mind the discussions ... in fact, I encourage it. When I hear all sides of everyone's opinions I learn a lot more than what I knew before. When it gets to the point where people feel insulted then it is time to back away. You're not going to change anyone's mind who is convinced they are right. And of all the back and forths we've had on this forum throughout the years I never remember who had the last word.
If a mod asks you to move on then anything posted after that is probably going to be a suspension to get you to cool off. I always back my moderators, but you can always PM me if you disagree with how things were handled. We're not perfect, but I will tell you that I will not go back and forth with you on PM.